No Surprise: Study Shows Men More Narcissistic than Women

News from the world of psychology: Nearly every stereotype about the gender gap with regards to narcissism, ambition and leadership is right.

narcissimThat’s according to a study in the March issue of the Psychological Bulletin, the journal of the American Psychological Association. In a review of three decades of survey data from nearly half-a-million participants, researchers found that men are more likely to demonstrate narcissistic behavior than women, regardless of generation or age.

The researchers examined some of humanity’s least-attractive characteristics – manipulativeness, self-absorption, aggression and arrogance among them – and looked at how people responded to statements that included “If I ruled the world, it would be a much better place” and “I know that I am good because everyone keeps telling me so.”

They then qualified “narcissism” according to three facets: entitlement, leadership/authority and grandiose/exhibitionism. Men scored measurably higher than women in the first two categories, and were more likely to agree with phrases like “I like having authority over people” and “I insist upon getting the respect that is due to me.” They were also more likely to exploit others and to believe that they were entitled to special privileges. But there was hardly any deviation between the two genders in the grandiose/exhibitionism category, which includes qualities like vanity and self-absorption.

Higher levels of narcissism have been a helpful adaptation for men, the study said, boosting their self-esteem and emotional stability and making them more likely to take on leadership roles. But it has its drawbacks.

“Narcissism is associated with various interpersonal dysfunctions, including an inability to maintain healthy long-term relationships, unethical behavior and aggression,” lead author Emily Grijalva, a professor at the University of Buffalo, said.

The study doesn’t tell us anything we didn’t already assume, but it is the first systematic review to back up the magnitude of gender stereotypes with actual data, according to Grijalva. It also looks into why those stereotypes exist in the first place.

“Individuals tend to observe and learn gender roles from a young age, and may face backlash for deviating from society’s expectations,” Grijalva said. “In particular, women often receive harsh criticism for being aggressive or authoritative, which creates pressure for women, more so than for men, to suppress displays of narcissistic behavior.”

Stereotypes about the way men and women exhibit entitlement and leadership can be self-perpetuating, the study said. For example, women score lower on the leadership/authority facet, meaning that they are less likely to wind up in leadership roles. But the resulting lack of female leaders could then reinforce the idea that women are worse leaders and less authoritative, pushing women to suppress those aspects of themselves to conform to gender expectations.

“For a woman who has deeply internalized a feminine gender identity, endorsing gender-stereotypical occupational preferences might be a mechanism used to avow her femininity to herself and to others,” the study said.

The study did include one piece of good news: neither female nor male college students are any more narcissistic now than they were in 1990.

Satisfied Customers Comments Music to Our Ears

When any of our customers move out from our storage facilities, we ask them to complete a survey which includes asking for their honest opinion about our facilities and customer service. We want to be sure we are always on our A-game, taking advice from the negative comments and learning more about our customers from the positive comments.

One of our surveys was recently filled out by Rachel A., who told us she had purchased a new home and was taking her belongings there. On a scale of one to four, with four being the best, Rachel gave our Elkhorn staff a four for being friendly and helpful.She noted that our manager, Diane, “has been helpful and friendly anytime I contacted her! She was the reason why I chose this location over other ones!”

Another customer who recently moved out from our Elkhorn facility, Richele M., said she “Really loved Diane. Great place, very clean & safe. I would recommend this place to anyone.”

MusicToMyEarsWe’re pleased to hear Rachel and Richele’s comments and are very happy to have received similar comments from customers at our other facilities. It’s music to our ears!

Here are a few of the things our customers had to say:

“I just wanted to say thank you to whoever puts Bible verses on your sign every few days. I drive right by daily and it has often been an encouragement to me to read those few lines. And I’m sure I’m not the only one who has been blessed by your willingness to share some of God’s words. Keep up the good work and may God bless you for spreading His promises a few words at a time.” – Heather

“Great place to store!” – Terri S. ■ “Excellent!” – Kevin V. ■ “You rock!” – J. ■ “Carrie was very friendly and helpful. Great experience.” – Krystin R ■ “Great facility and service. Thanks, Kerry!” – Fred S. ■ “Outstanding service.” – Janice S.

“Tammy was very friendly and helpful.” – Marcus J. ■ “Thanks for keeping our items safe and secure.” – Keith B. ■ “I’d like to thank all the staff , they were very helpful.” – Brian T. ■ “Dawn has always been very friendly and helpful. You are very lucky to have her!.” – Gretchen S.

“Great staff, very helpful.” – David W. ■ “Awesome.” – Ken C. ■ “Diane was extremely helpful during my entire move. Thanks!” – Reed R. ■ “Keep up the good work!” – James C.

“Excellent staff and facility.” – Linda D. ■ “Was treated very well by staff and will always recommend Dino’s to my friends. Thank you.” – Clyde K. ■ “Good customer service. Thanks a lot!” – Michelle M.

“I love the words of advice on the advertising boards on the side of your buildings. I read the boards every time I drive by and think about the phrase. I appreciate how they aren’t specifically religious and are sound words. Please continue to have these messages. It is more beneficial than to display weekly storage specials and much more interesting. I absolutely love the message on Douglas!” – Sean H.

Our thanks to all of our customers for choosing to store at Dino’s and for their kind, encouraging and helpful comments.

Your Security Matters to Dino’s

Dino’s self storage facilities have many lines of defense to protect your property – fences, locked indoor storage buildings, security cameras etc. But, the last line of defense for your goods is a solid, reliable lock on your individual storage unit.

Even in the most sophisticated and well-maintained facilities, such as ours, break-ins have occurred. It’s virtually impossible to be aware of what everyone on our property is doing at any given moment. Our security cameras serve as a deterrent to would-be thieves. But they may not deter the most determined thieves.

Our security gates only allow access for our current tenants. But, it may be possible for somebody to speedily step on the gas following a tenant and beat the gate shutting back, and get onto the property.

A serious, solid secure lock on your personal storage unit is the best and final measure to provide an extra layer of protection for your property.

disclockTo that end, we exclusively sell locks from Chateau and most strongly recommend the Chateau Disc Lock – the best padlock on the market.

This disc lock offers a solid combination of security and ease-of-use. In fact, it’s just as fast for you to take on and off as any other simple padlock. Just one twist of the key will get you in and out. It is, ,however, a much different story for anyone hoping to tamper with your lock. These disc locks are extremely difficult to remove. For that very reason, we strongly recommend them for the to our self storage customers.

The Chateau Disc Lock is a super secure device. Note in the photo that the rounded latch is only partially exposed at the top of the lock. That piece right there is specially hardened, and impossible to cut with regular bolt cutters. It just can’t be done. Thereis no place on the lock body for industrial bolt cutters to find a place to cut. This lock will reliably defeat any pair of bolt cutters your average thug would have on hand.

It may be possible to “rake” these storage locks open with a combination of a professional pick and a homemade tool, but that would take an in-depth knowledge of lock-picking to do quickly and effectively. All in all, this Chateau Disc Lock is one of the most widely used locks on storage properties today.

We also sell a variety of moving and storage supplies provided by Chateau to give the best available quality to our customers.

DISC LOCK OR PAD LOCK?

                                       

“What is the difference between a pad lock and a disc lock…”.  While I don’t require a specific type of lock be used at my facility, I generally recommend the disc lock (and so do most other self storage facilities).  Even at the best storage facilities with the best security, there are no guarantees and theft is still a concern; same as it is at your home or with your automobile.  A disc lock is stainless steel vs. most pad locks are laminated steel; and because the disc lock has a shorter shank it can not be cut with a bolt cutter like most pad locks can; thus it is more secure.

“But I don’t have anything of value in my storage unit…”. I still recommend the disc lock. Thieves only know what’s in a unit after they break into it and riffle through all your stuff. Usually leaving it a damaged, mangled, mess.  To cut off a disc lock you need a metal grinder and it takes a while; unlike being able to snip off a pad lock which takes only seconds.  As a storage facility manager, I’m experienced at cutting locks and it can still take me a good 15 minutes to cut through a disc lock; most thieves don’t have that kind of time to stand in front of a storage unit without raising suspicion.  Most thieves breaking into a storage facility are hitting multiple units; so they want to break in to units they can access quickly and easily. If you have a disc lock it can act as a deterrent in that type of situation and they usually pass your unit by; which means no mangled mess for you to reorganize.

“If someone really wants to break in to a unit, they are going to break in regardless of what type of lock is on it….”.   Yes that is true.  But in the event you run into a really determined thief that does take the time to grind through a disc lock; having a disc lock vs. pad lock can still be beneficial in the claim process.  Some insurance carriers (including Bader, the company we work with) will waive the deductible on an insurance claim if the tenant was using a disc lock on the unit.  If you secure the unit with a pad lock, you pay the deductible on the claim.

The cost of a pad lock at my facility is $12 dollars and the cost of a disc lock is only $15.  So even though the disc lock is a little more expensive when you are already talking about the loss of having your unit broken into; $5 dollars can at least save you the further loss of having to pay a deductible to replace those items.

Quick Dino’s Storage Storing Tips

Storage tips:

Many people ask “how should I store my mattress as far as side or flat?” Storing your mattress in a breathable plastic bag will protect it from the elements. Here at Dino’s Storage we sell a wide range of breathable mattress bags and totes. Avoid storing your mattress in a thick plastic cover, as this will encourage condensation. Breathable plastic is enough to protect it from mold, dust and allergens while keeping it moisture-free. Mattresses are not meant to sit in storage for years, even with proper protection. In addition throw in a few laundry softener sheets for a nice scent. The retail stores have them on the sides so I don’t see a problem storing the same way as long as the mattress is a well constructed one. You can always come to you storage area and rotate the mattress also.

Welcome to the Dino’s Storage Blog

Background: 

In 1999 Dave Paladino founded Dino’s Storage.  Dave has built Dino’s Storage into a multi-state and country company operating in Winnipeg Canada, Des Moines Iowa and headquarters in Omaha, Nebraska.  Our mission is to engage with the life events of our customers while providing physical present that speaks to the needs of the consumer.  Dino’s Storage number one core value is to glorify God in all that we do.  Most locations have a reader board that has inspirational quotes, stating the important messages from God.

Not just another storage facility, we are the top of the industry:

Dino’s Storage stands above all the rest in so many ways.  With being spread across both Omaha and Des Moines, we are conveniently located.  Activity involved with community programs such as Omaha Chambers of Commerce and several charities.  Forgot to mention, we offer a wide range of competitively priced moving supplies and rental moving trucks/ trailers.  Another above the rest is blogging.  Stay tuned to hear from all of the dedicated employees that make up the Dino’s Storage team. Visit us at Dinosstorage.com or on facebook Dino’s Storage

Locations and Contacts:

Dave Paladino, President, Dave@dinosstorage.com

Jena Erickson, Operations Manager, Jena@dinosstorage.com or 402-916-4010

Nebraska:

2 Downtown Omaha Facilities, Harney & Dodge Street 402-345-3466

Midtown Facility, 402-504-4600

Bellevue Facility, 402-293-4667

Papillion Facility, 402-331-1555

LaVista/ Millard Facility, 402-896-6500

Elkhorn/West Omaha Facility, 402-289-0923

West Maple/ Northwest Omaha Facility, Opening late summer of 2013

Matt Kaluza, Traveling Leasing Manager, customerservices@dinosstorage.com or 402-968-5526

Iowa:

Bondurant Facility, 515-967-9346

2nd Ave/North Des Moines Facility, 515-280-5060

Se 14th/South Des Moines Facility, 515-953-3466

Canada:

Winnipeg Facility 204-772-0526